Quotes to Inspire... 11/09/2011
Frugality is one of the most beautiful and joyful words in the English language, and yet one that we are culturally cut off from understanding and enjoying. The consumption society has made us feel that happiness lies in having things, and has failed to teach us the happiness of not having things. ~Elise Boulding What a unique treasure are the things we have learned to live without, for no thief can take them from us. ~Robert Brault We don't need to increase our goods nearly as much as we need to scale down our wants. Not wanting something is as good as possessing it. ~Donald Horban Add Comment Seasonal Swap and Purge 11/09/2011
This is the time of year in which I perform my seasonal swap of clothing. No more sandals and summer time dresses taking up room in my closet. Now is the time I grab my two seasonal bins from storage and spend a couple hours to bring out the winter wear and put away the spring summer fashions. Next year I will be excited to do the swap again and look forward to taking back some of my favorites to enjoy. I suggest everyone try this, and give your closet some breathing space. Enjoy the stuff that you really love and use often. All you need is a few clear bins as shown in the picture and some safe and dry space to store it. As you see, my needs are covered with only two bins. The box on top represents a portion of donated items from my household and my mothers too. Cost to you, about $20 per bin and a few hours of your time. And you can do this with things like kid’s toys and books too. Doing a seasonal swap each year gives your children a chance to focus more on the few favorites they own and each year see the old as new again. It beats shopping for new stuff when you can get a thrill from un-boxing some almost forgotten favorites. Go ahead and ask, you won't be the first... If you want to know what simple activity can consistently make someone better organized, I will answer 'The ability to make quick objective decisions'. To Decide or Not to Decide. Learning to ‘make decisions’ on everything, as soon as it crosses your path, and dedicating time and energy to follow through on your choices, are two important aspects to staying organized. Not being able to make decisions, and putting things ‘here for now’ is a challenge that plaques many, for various reasons. These reasons, or shall I say ‘Obstacles’ are mainly due to what I will call ‘technical error’. Technical Error is not having a proper, easy to access ‘home’ for things. Then again, sometimes the 'obstacle' leading to this 'decision making challenge' can be related to fears or even perfectionism. Yet anyway we slice it, learning to make objective decisions about what we keep, where we keep it and whether or not we act on it is very important in my opinion. So to help you and those you know make better choices about what to keep and what to do with it, here are some tools to share. To help you make quick decisions I have a free copy of the '4 Decisions to Make with Tasks and Mail' for you on my site. Then if you want to take a look at thinning out or eliminating any piles of business cards, magazines, brochures and over stuffed files you can find great 'Tips to Weed your Tasks and Paper' here. And if letting go is hard, stay objective by asking yourself these questions about your stuff: When it comes to Paper: Is it a duplicate? Is it current? How often will I refer to it? Can I get it elsewhere if I need it? Do I have time to read it? Do I want, or truly need this? Is replication very difficult? Does the law require I keep it? When it comes to Clutter ask: When was it last used? Is there a specific date I will need this again in future? How hard would it be to replace again if I needed it? How does it make my life more purposeful or better? Is it beautiful or loved? Does it reflect the person I am now? What is worst case scenario if I toss it? Now, if you still struggle a bit with the questions above and/or still need a little help to decide where to put things, take a closer look at the information in my 2010 article The-top-questions-to-ask-yourself-about-your-stuff OK, all good? Ready to tackle it alone? Great! Not looking forward to going it alone? Just don't have the time? Or is being objective impossible because you can’t see the forest through the trees? Call me, its my passion to help. Practicing what I preach... 06/02/2011
How do I know what my clients are experiencing? Well, I too have accumulated 'stuff' and occasionally its needs to be purged. Here's me, practicing what I preach... Last Monday was one of those days when I too had to spend some time organizing my belongings, re-live some past memories and let go of some 'stuff'! We have a small storage unit close by in which we store our valuable and not so valuable possessions that just don’t fit in our home. For the most part these items are not up for disposal due to their valuable and highly useful nature. (For example: our 4 large containers of camping and sporting gear) Lately however, we have been contemplating thinning out much of the household items and other less loved stuff we know has been taking up space. So we decided to practice what we preach: ‘Have nothing which you don't know to be useful, think to be beautiful, or love.’ We managed to gather up 6 large boxes of stuff to give away. I was actually surprised at the amount and was excited to make that kind of a dent in our storage space. We now have more room and much better access to what we use most often. One particularly liberating experience was tossing out a pile of old records I had created when I was producing a business plan for a health food internet café. Wow, what a trip to go through those old documents and ideas! Yet, I don’t regret tossing it because really, I have most documents backed up in electronic format anyhow. I understand my client's situations and feelings when dealing with clutter and letting go. Like myself, I know they too can feel refreshed when ‘space’ is cleared and the 'unneeded' and 'unwanted' are released. So, where is your clutter? ![]() Admiring my pile of old documents before they hit the trash. When Life was Simple 02/21/2011
My Fiancé' and I were chatting recently about clutter. The topic comes up alot in my home as it is a passion of mine. Anyways, we came to the conclusion that 'stuff' makes you feel old sometimes. The stuff we gather tends to own us, not the other way around. When we hold on to clutter, it holds us down, makes us feel overwhelmed, crowded, stressed out. Letting it go however is a great way to simplify things, feel lighter and feel younger. Imagine when you were a kid. You didn't have all this "stuff" you do now. Your job was to run and play and have fun. Enjoying your moments as they came. Go ahead, tame that paper tiger, let go of some clutter, free up some space and time, and be a kid again! Don't know where to begin? 10/03/2010
![]() If you catch yourself saying 'I don't know where to start.' or 'I don't know what to do with any of this' try these 3 tips... 1. Spread things out a little so you are not stuck seeing the forest rather than the trees. 2. Start with items that you know what do with. Put them away immediately. 3. Pick items up one by one and force yourself to look at them. Once you have put away the items you know what to do with you may see categories emerging. If items don't have a home or don't fit in current location keep gathering them up in their 'like' groups. After you have your categories of stuff sorted out you will be in a better position to gauge what else can get tossed, donated or recycled, and where the keepers should be kept. Keeping Clutter Away for Good! 09/07/2010
1. Handle paper only once. And if that is not possible, at least try to move it one step closer to completion every time you do pick it up. 2. Make decisions now. Don’t put things down ‘for now’. Commit yourself to decide what to do with each piece of paper immediately. 3. Clear out your in-box for 15 minutes each day. Don’t turn your ‘in-box’, into a ‘procrastinator tray’. 4. Sort by Category. Mail and e-mail should be sorted into categories. Try sorting ‘by Priority’, ‘by Action’ or ‘by Date’ 5. Write notes in the right place. Numerous scraps of paper and notes will only serve to frustrate you. Choose one place to keep notes, and if they pertain to a client folder or project, put the notes in the proper file as soon as possible. 6. Get real about what you can read. Limit subscriptions, clip articles out if you want to keep it and recycle the rest of the periodical right away. Be realistic about how much you can actually read too. 7. Purge papers regularly. Twice a year purges will do wonders to keep the volume down. Take time to thin out files that contain unimportant notes, drafts and other non-essential information. 8. Keep file systems logical and easy to use. Creating a Dewey Decimal coded system or trying to develop some mythical ‘Perfect’ system is an urge you should resist. It Cost Too Much to Let-Go! 06/27/2010
![]() In my latest presentation to the Roaring Women's Group of Vancouver I shared a lot of information on common obstacles to getting and staying organized. What I didn't have enough time to cover was the 'Barriers' we come across when faced with the prospect of having to 'Let Go'. Obstacles and Barriers do cover some common ground, yet Barriers are more focused on the fears we have. Rather than going into details on the dozen of barriers that can be faced, today I will talk about one important barrier. That barrier that involves us hanging onto unwise purchases we regret. You'll know you've hit this barrier if you say something like: "I can't toss this, it cost me too much!" When you catch yourself saying this, it should be a sign that you need to seriously consider letting this item go! Why, may you ask? Because holding onto to something only because it cost too much is like holding onto crashing stocks. We fear that if we get rid of the object which we now regret buying, that we will make this loss ‘real’. It is 'real' already. Hanging onto this object of ‘regret’ however does nothing more than to remind us of our mistake. Ask yourself. Can someone else make use of this? Can I donate it and get a tax deduction? Can a sell it? Make the choice to free yourself from clutter that only serves to make you feel bad and make more room for 'happy' in your world instead. Is your home a 20 hour or a 200 hour home? 06/13/2010
Instant results! Done in no time! Faster than ever! Push button technology! Get it now! Western culture's way has us all believing that we can have anything done in a 'snap'. It will be 'easy' and all we need to do is push a button and our problems are solved. Yes, it's true that our microwaves, digital cameras, remote controls and other 'push-button' technology has made some things easy, and given us back a little extra time. So why do we still hear "I don't have enough time!"? Perhaps we do have enough time, if we just stopped and organized it a little better. When I have the honor of looking into an office or home that someone wants to have organized, I can approximately estimate how long it will take. A couple of important variables are the expectations about what the final results will look like, and of course what we find along the way, which may require more attention. I have been in 20 hour homes and I have been in 200 hour homes and I can tell you that in either case one thing is constant. One hour is one hour and in one hour you can do only one hour worth of work. No instant fixes, no 'push-button' solutions and no modern technology can change this fact. You can of course have the help of extra hands to help make this go faster. If you or someone you know has a space that is aching to be reclaimed, can you guess how many hours it could take? What I do know is this; if there is a mess, it didn't get there overnight and it won't disappear overnight either. Besides, what's the rush? Oh yes, those instant results we are used to. Actually, when it comes to some projects that I have been hired to work on, I really wish sometimes I could be locked in, given free reign and allowed to 'have-at-it!". Of course this may in fact lead to a burn out so doing work in intervals is fine and gets the work done over time regardless. With this is mind, lets now consider how frustrating it may be for someone faced with a 200 hour home. If they come to the realization that they could work diligently for hours and not 'see' the difference, how disheartening this could be for them. What is an important thing to remember, however, when faced with this prospect, is that just because the first portion of work won't be 'noticed', does not mean it is wasted time. For example, if you had 10 pounds to lose and lost 5 pounds, it would show right away. Just like 5 hours on a 10 hour kitchen. Yet if you had a goal to lose 100 pounds, 5 pounds would not show right away. On a 200 hour home this could mean you’ll need to put in 40 hours to start 'seeing' the difference and enjoy the benefits increased organization brings. Remember; a pound is a pound, an hour is an hour, and it will 'show' in time. Starting and working through the process, one step at a time, is what will make the difference. Many of the wonderful people that have allowed me to come into their homes and offices are talented, intelligent people that have just let things go for a while. That same 'while' is just waiting for things to change direction, that's all. As inspired to write about this today, I must pay homage to two wonderful ladies, Pam Young and Peggy Jones, also known as the "Slob Sisters'. Their book "Get Your Act Together: A 7-day get-organized program for the overworked, overbooked and overwhelmed" is an informative, insightful, entertaining and practical guide to help anyone get organized. There are many professional organizing gurus that offer expertise, their systems and even their personal experiences to help improve the state of our lives and our homes. These two wonderful ladies are in that category! With Warmest Regards, Michelle ![]() I know it can be difficult to be objective about stuff, especially after it has been piled all around us for a while. As it piles up around us we become more and more complacent about it, forgetting why we have it and what its use is. Here are two simple questions to ask about some common household items that may be lurking in the corners of your countertops, closets and drawers. Magazines Will I bring old magazines with me to the doctors or mechanics so I can read mine instead of theirs? What percentage of the magazines or newspapers that I pay for, do I actually read? Newspapers Have I ever browsed through a pile of old newspapers in my free time, looking for old information? If I really needed to look for information in old newspapers, wouldn't a trip to the Library or a Google search cover my needs? Keys Do I remember what lock this key is for? Do I still own or use the lock for which this key belongs? Instruction Manuals Will I really forget how to use my toaster? If I am keeping for warrantee reasons only, has it expired? Twist ties When was the last time I needed a whole pile of twist ties at once? If I already have a collection of twist ties, do I need more, and for what? Souvenirs Do I have a mountain of pictures of my trip that I can look to reminisce instead? Will I ever really use that tacky novelty ashtray I bought on my last holiday? I recognize the fact that in this world we are bombarded with paper, information and stuff and that getting overwhelmed by it is something that can happen to anyone. Need help with letting go, getting organized and becoming more effective and relaxed? I will be happy to help you simplify your life and your work today. Call now for your no-cost consultation in the Vancouver, BC area. 778-866-6942 Warmly, Michelle Panzlaff Another past article of interest: http://www.tidytiger.biz/1/post/2010/03/the-top-questions-to-ask-yourself-about-your-stuff.html | CategoriesAll ArchivesJanuary 2012 |







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